Mommies it is okay NOT to be perfect! Many of us think that we have to be the “perfect” mommies, the perfect wife, the perfect everything and this is just not true. I don’t like the word perfect because nothing and no one is perfect in my opinion. The only person that is perfect is GOD for me anyways. You do not have to stress yourself on being the perfect mother because we will not be the perfect mothers we will make mistakes in the process of figuring out how to be a mother, we will fall but you know what we are strong enough to get back up!. We can not be the perfect wife because there’s no such thing unless you want to be a robot and I am pretty sure our husbands or boyfriends fell in love with us not because we were perfect but because we were real, we were ourselves, because we were perfectly imperfect! There is no such thing as a perfect relationship lets be serious, do not stress yourself over trying to show people you have a perfect relationship because it does not exist, you can definitely have a loving, happy relationship but is definitely not a perfect one, am I right?. I have a secret I used to think other people had perfect relationships and I would even wished I had that, but than I realized that my relationship was a good one and still is, I was just too worry about how other people’s relationship was than to actually look at mine. There is always ups and downs in a relationship but how both of you handle it and move forward from it is the key to a successful relationship. Nope nobody is perfect, and that is fine with me, I am happy of who I am, what I have and you should too!

*** Just remember to our children we are PERFECT***