Boy Oh Boy is this quote right on and popping!. I know for a fact that we all do this, please don’t say no because I know you do. We compare ourselves to other mothers and their children, we compare our relationships to others, We compare jobs and etc.The list can honestly go on and on and on like the batteries remember that commercial?. Anyways this quote just reminds me of what not to do, life will be so much better. I used to compare my relationship to other’s thinking that other people’s relationship was much better than mine. I even used to say wow look how happy they always look do they even fight? Why was I wasting my time comparing my relationship to other people’s? I do not know but al I know is that I rarely do this now a days because I know that there is not a perfect relationship and that is not the point the point is that I concentrated more on my relationship with my boyfriend that it just made it harder to look at other’s relationship. Stop comparing yourself to other people and just do YOU! ” what am I doing… Oh yeah am doing me! ( drake song!). Simple as that worry about yourself, your family, your marriage, your kids, your job and stop COMPARING yourself to people it is not going to get you anywhere and it is just going to make matters worst! When you compare well let me rephrase that when WE compare ourselves to other people you will see the positive in them and the negative in you. Did I make my self clear , like did I make sense because I think I did but I am not sure. But anyways is like if you see a mother for example saying to her child ” Honey I am not going to buy you that toy today” and the child says ” ok mommy maybe next time” and you think to yourself and say ” WTF my child does not listen to me, my child would definitely throw a tantrum, wow what am I doing wrong, I am the worst mother in the world when I can’t even get my own child to listen” Do you get where I am going with this? What this mother created was negativity and did not think of other positive things that she and her child have. Just because you happen to see one scenario in someone’s life does not mean is always like that. The child ( in my example) most of the time probably doesn’t listen to the mother but do you know that? Nope you just think the child is perfect when in fact that is not true! Mommies please let’s not get caught up in this we are better than that! let’s STOP comparing ourselves to other’s, let’s stop living other people’s lives and let’s START LIVING OURS! Be happy and enjoy what you have!
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