Finding out that I was expecting twins was a very shocking moment in my life. I felt unbelievably blessed and I honestly was not thinking far ahead about how I was really going to take care of two little angels. It didn’t cross my mind until after I gave birth, haha!
Even though I am not pregnant with my twins anymore in fact they are turning 1 years old this month, I have to tell you what people would tell me every time they found out that I was having twins. These were complete strangers and no one asked for their opinions you know what I mean? They just thought that whatever they had to say was very insightful to me and thought that I actually cared, no to be rude or anything right? Geesh the things people say to pregnant women are unbelievable….here we go….
7 things you should never say to a pregnant women of multiples…
Wow! I feel bad for you
Seriously? like I really need a rude a** stranger to tell me they feel bad for me, well I feel bad for who ever is married to you!
I feel bad for your husband
This is my favorite I just wanted to smack the guy that said this! enough said !
Oh My God, better you than me
Why thank you, yes better me than you because the twins would obviously have more love with me than your greedy self! I don’t get why people think it’s okay to say rude comments to someone they don’t even know. It just surprises me really.
How are you going to do it?
Do what exactly?
Give birth? Well is a C-section so the doctor will cut me open in a freezing room where I have no control of what they are doing to me!
Raise them? It is easy for me I already have a 3 year old daughter that I take good care of thank you very much! raising kids is something you obviously do not know anything about!
How are you feeling about this?
I feel great, awesome, cool, on top of the world. In fact I am beyond excited to have two little bundle of joys to bless my life with instead of one. I know it’s not going to be easy but I wouldn’t want it any other day.
That’s it you are done having kids right?
Is this any of your business if I am having more kids or not? The nerve that some people have asking this question, I would get so offended because it’s my life, my body, my kids and nobody should care except for me. What if I wanted to have more kids?
shocked and scared face like someone just told them the worst news
This one is hilarious to me, you should see how scared people can get when mentioning twins, it’s unbelievable. like get a grip, I didn’t even make those kind of faces when my doctor informed me that i was indeed carrying twins.
These are just some of the things people would tell me when they found out I was having twins, there’s probably more I am sure but these are the ones I can remember….Do you guys want to share some of the things people would tell you when you were pregnant?