I know it’s hard.Everything right now seems impossible to do. You are trying to keep your shit together as a mom, wife and person.Trying to be a good mother, partner and somehow you feel like you’ve failed in all of them. The struggle hard. You feel like you’re doing this alone and there’s no way out.
But What if i told you there is light at the end of the tunnel. You are not struggling mama, you are doing just fine. You don’t need to try to keep your shit together as a mom. What if you already have it together and figured out?
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You are struggling to keep your shit together as a mom when:
- Your baby keeps waking up in the middle of the night
- The house is a hot mess
- Your kids are constantly fighting over a toy
- You don’t get the help that you desperately need
- You don’t seem to have any time to take a break without the kids calling your name every 5 mins
Do you think to yourself “ I can’t do this”. Have you gone to the bathroom or closet and just cry because you’re so burned out and overwhelm? I have..It’s not easy being a mother.But you know what mama?You have not failed anyone or yourself.
Your kids and partner don’t see what you see in you. They don’t see you struggling or see you as someone who doesn’t have her shit together. They don’t think you are a failure or weak or a bad mom. It’s all in your head mama. Your thoughts about yourself is not the same thoughts your family think about you!
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You have to stop these limiting beliefs about yourself because they are not true
Your family sees you as:
- A strong woman
- A loving and caring mom and wife
- You’re keeping your family together
- You being a boss at work and in the house
- You handling everything with grace
Stop putting so much pressure on yourself to get everything “right”.Look at yourself and see the amazing woman that you are. You love your family and your family loves you.It doesn’t matter if your house is a mess, or you haven’t cooked a decent meal in a long time.Stop struggling to keep your shit together because you already have it together.
Your mind and thoughts want you to think otherwise.Tell yourself everyday that you’re doing an amazing job, that you got this!
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3 steps to take when you’re trying to keep your shit together as a mom
1.Stop putting pressure on yourself
You may be putting unnecessary pressure on yourself to be the “perfect” mom and wife. Loosen up, trust yourself more and love the imperfect you!
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2.Your family loves you for you
Most of the time, you DO have your shit together. You just don’t see it!Your family sees you as strong, presenty, loving and amazing!! They are in awe of you!
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3.Ask yourself this:
1.”What does having your shit together look like?”
2.”What do you need to see, feel and do in order to feel you have it together?”
Reflecting on these questions are going to help you know when will you feel like you have your stuff together and feel good about it.
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