Let’s talk about the reasons that your life is not the one that you WANT yet. Why you are not living your best mom life. Even though this may sound cliche, every mom REALLY wants to feel good and feel like their motherhood journey is the best. Not feeling stressed out all of the time, feeling guilty and always in a burnout state. Sadly is what most moms lives looks like.
But not today mama, today I will share the number one reason why you’re not living your best mom life yet. Why the changes that you want to make as a person are just temporary. And why you are not the mom that YOU want to be!
I hear it all of the time, from my mom clients, from readers and followers and even from my close friends.
- You want more time for YOU!
- You want to rediscover yourself again and be HAPPY!
- You want to FEEL more confident and not alone.
Your desire is to FEEL and BELIEVE that you are a GOOD MOM! Even if you trip and fall, even if your child is not hitting the milestones even if you yell at your kids. Even when you’re having a bad mom day, you still want to feel like a damn good mom. Grab my ebook How not to lose yourself in motherhood, start rediscovering yourself, ditch the mom guilt and practice more selfcare! Read it here!
I totally get that! Because I also wanted those things. Guess what I DO!
The number one reason why you’re not living your best mom life
The minute that you start changing the thoughts that you have about yourself and your beliefs about your circumstances. That’s when the real magic happens. You can say “I want more “me” time and then your actual thought is “I don’t have the time or I feel guilty if I do”
That limiting thought does not produce long lasting CHANGES!
Another example is ” I’m a single mom, is so hard to find the time for selfcare or do things that I love”. That is a limiting belief as well. Even though yes it’s harder, if you really want to you will find a way right?
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Now, when you start creating a habit of positive thoughts every single day, you will see more possibilities for the things that you really want.
Every morning wake up thinking positive thoughts:
- “I’m going to have a great day”
- “Today is a fantastic day to have a fantastic day”
- “I love my children”
- “I’m going to feel happy and calm today”
- “Me time” is just a thought and decision away”
Changing your thoughts from I can’t, I will never or I hope. Just means that you are not believing in yourself and how capable you are in creating the life that you love as a mom. Living your best mom life is a choice that you make. It starts with a thought that turns into a belief and that belief dictates your actions.
Who do you think DECIDES if you should be happy or unhappy?
When you start thinking positive thoughts, believing in yourself and the life that you want is just a thought away, your life becomes more exciting, happier and full of possibilities!
If you’re like “How the heck do i even get started with this?”. No problem, I’m here to HELP you!!
Working with me I’ll help you be the mom that you want to be. I help you rediscover yourself as a person and truly LOVE who you are as a mom. I help you feel happier, calmer and more confident as a mom by ditching the stress, overwhelm and guilt so that you FEEl m ore in control of your life!
I hope this tip has helped you in taking the first steps in living your best mom life because you deserve it mama. You have to believe in yourself, you have to belief that you are a great mom and that your dream life as a mom is possible. Because it is.